Is this a red flag? Or too soon to say?

I think its nice that she even bothered to let you know. The triple text comes off as her genuinely feeling bad and trying to let you know that she'd still like to go in her own little awkward way. The red flag would have been her just expecting you to pay and not even attempting to reach for her wallet at the end of the night.

I like what the other comment said. You get this one, she gets next! I get not wanting to be scammed out of dinner, but its not like you're giving away your CC number. If it's a nice night with good conversation, I say it's money well spent.

Also. Do y'all realize how many people need to live paycheck to paycheck? You don't know where her money goes. Financial stability in this economy. Once those bills hit, you better believe that I'm waiting till Friday to spend anything extra.

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