Redditors that are “no contact” with your parents, how do you feel on Mother’s Day and Father’s Day?

Didn't speak to my mother for 10 years, she had alcohol problems and we argued so much. Breaking point came when I went on a week holiday and left my 5 year with her and new husband (we were on good terms at the time and she was a good grandmother). I came back early after I find out they've taken my son to see his father (who abandoned us and since remarried with kids) and actually want TO GIVE HIM TO HIS FATHER. All got taken to court, they lied about me doing drugs and saying I didn't want my child anymore. Absolute bllsht and I was so angry and betrayed. Found out later (about 5 years of no contact) the husband was the one who wanted rid of me and my son, and was also making mothets drinking worse. Still couldn't forgive her. Got a call saying she was on her death bed (liver failure) and broke down in tears. Had no idea what to do but couldnt get past the thought of her dying and me living with regrets rest of my life. Drove 3 hours and saw her (didn't speak to the douchbag husband) she was unconscious but I talked to her. It was odd but I'm glad I went. Still not sure if I forgive her but still feel so sad losing her.

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