I refuse to date someone who has slept around.

“If it’s fair” - so you’re saying it’s fair for a woman to have no sex, but you can have lots of sex before considering dating her? That’s a double standard my dude. I’m just saying if you’re going to tell someone, hey I think you’re great, but your body count is too high for me, but then proceed to have a high body count yourself, that’s not a great look. Also, I feel like your examples aren’t relevant or at least I don’t understand how that shows something isn’t fair…like if I value cooking skills, I should learn to cook? Yeah, I feel like that’s a pretty fair trade lol. I don’t expect someone to cook well for me if I can’t even cook lol, we’ll just order take out.

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