Being young and dating and falling in love people really prioritize this theory of you have to know "everything" about someone to be able to love them. And in a sense, yes knowing someone deeply is very important. But, guys, let me tell you something...as you get older and you mature you don't hold such value to "body count" and numbers. I've seen this repeatedly and I've gotten downvotes galore for saying what I'm about to say...but it is NOT important to tell someone exactly how many people you have had sex with. It's a highly insecure conversation to have. It's a highly insecure question to ask. It's juvenile at the very least and it's usually a relationship and confidence killer.

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