I regret saving it for marriage

I don’t know. I’m not in a situation as bad as yours, but my SO and I went from having sex once a day(including during my pregnancy) to once a week max.

I’m the LL in this situation. My libido has just died. I’m also young(early 20’s). I feel terrible about to but between the kids and our hobbies, obligations, etc. I truly don’t have the energy. We don’t ever really connect and I can’t remember the last time he turned me on.

I’m saying all this because maybe there is more to this situation than you realize. Maybe you guys need more date nights, maybe he’s stressed, maybe he feels as if you guys are missing ‘the spark’.

Best of luck to you OP ❤️

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