That right there is why I quit being considerate when turning women down.
The last straw was when this landwhale on Plenty of Fish got bitchy because she messaged me and instead of wasting her & my time I said, sorry but I'm not interested. She the proceded to lecture me on how much of a dick I was for making assumptions. Like wtf!? You message me on a dating site just to have a friendly chat. Get the hell outta here. That was like 8 years ago and I haven't been on a dating site since.
I've always been an empathetic person but now it's like, nah...fuck off. I have better things to do. Like beat off. Haha. I actually used that one on a chick once. The look on her face was priceless. :-)