Relationship question

22M here in a long-term relationship with my girlfriend (20F) and I feel the exact same things. It almost feels like my self-esteem and self-confidence really depends on the reassurance of my SO and I’m trying really hard for those feelings to come from myself first so I don’t have to rely on anyone else to feel good or emotionally okay. The jealousy thing about situations that aren’t even happening in reality is a huge struggle as well, and I relate to you 100% when you talk about your past being a huge factor of needing more reassurance. If you ever wanna talk more about these struggles feel free to message me, my inbox is always open :)

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