My relationship with my sister just broke tonight. She is and has always been and angry toxic narcissist. But I've put up with it and been her punching bag for years. And I'm finally done. It's my birthday, she came over to my house to give me a gift and have dessert. Our brother just passed 10 months ago he lived with me before he passed. I recently found his pot pipe in his old room. I showed it to her tonight. She immediately asked for it and I said no. I was oddly attached to it. I've given her other things of his already. It blew up into fight. Where she got verbally abusive then stormed out. This was the last straw. Now I feel guilty like I was wrong, I don't know maybe I just should have given it to her. I don't even smoke.