Thank you for your very honest reply.

I have told him about what my ex did. I'm not blaming porn for what he did, and my current SO and I have discussed and turned down threesomes mutually. We don't want to watch the other person sleep with another man/woman. He's also told me, in his own words, that he feels wrong watching porn knowing he has (what he considers to be) the most beautiful woman in the world.

I fulfill his fantasies. I've asked him what he wants, done what he wants to do and try and be an all-around awesome sexual partner. I'm always asking if he wants something new, if what I'm doing feels good/bad or if I can do something better.

He looked to the a-typical "Big tits" stuff, but I'm well-endowed and that didn't worry me. The incest thing had me curious, since it was sister stuff and we have done daddy/master stuff.

I've told him I don't want to project on him, that if he beats it to the weirdest porn out there I don't mind. I would just like honesty, he said he doesn't wanna jack it to "real" porn, just look at doujini every so-often because he, too, feels weird about porn. He told me a wouldn't be cool with me touching myself to some dude's dick as well. It feels more like he's hiding it.

He doesn't have to keep tabs with me, I would just like honesty. If he said tomorrow that he wants to watch porn with or without me, I would be fine with it. We usually have great communication in and outside of the bedroom. Things have just been shaky since I have been feeling like I'm not some crazy nympho and I can't fulfill his constant needs. I try my damnedest, and we are always together. It seems like he did this while at work, or while I slept.