it is possible to talk red pill with friends/family/people in general. You just got to sugar coat the language you use.

This applies to any message that confronts one's ingrained convictions.

I was raised as a member of a well-known cult, perhaps you've seen them trying to preach at your door. Long after I lost the fear of god, the fear of losing my friends and family still remained. To simply remove myself from the cult would mean that everyone I've ever loved would disown me; I'd be excommunicated.

The mistake I made at the beginning of my exit was sharing my knowledge freely with anyone who asked. This proved disastrous as I'd become a marked individual and lost most of my friends in the process. I quickly learned that challenging someone's beliefs with aggressive and forthright logic would only result in failure. To save my closest friends and family, I had to adopt Law of Power 38. I didn't know of any laws of power at the time, I simply became a wolf in sheep's clothing to safeguard myself from their prejudices.

I would appear as an active member, but over time I would release seeds of doubt to the person I wanted to deprogram. Careful cultivation of that seed you planted will allow the person to convince himself that the idea was from his own origin. I started with small doses of truth, and I would gauge their receptiveness. You can only help someone who wants to be helped, but giving them small bits of information at a time will help them along that path. The best time to strike is when they share a doubt or information in accord with your plan. That is when their convictions are easiest to mold, like hot iron. Eventually, I was able to share larger doses of truth with more open language until we all distanced ourselves from the cult together.

This is the same method I've used to introduce the red pill with some friends. To succeed you need to pretend you're on the blue side while you subtly give small doses of red. You see this all the time in AskReddit or other mainstream subs where one user gives highly upvoted red-pill advice without using any of the jargon we've become accustomed to.

You need to be like the ocean; send wave after wave of truth until the foundational rock breaks.