3. REMINDER: Reasons why you shouldn't be friends/in contact with your ex or unrequ...

REMINDER: Reasons why you shouldn't be friends/in contact with your ex or unrequited love.

This post cams at the perfect time for me. I saw my ex in person last week and asked her to go for coffee even though I know she has no intention of rekindling things. I’ve been doing it a lot recently and I knew I needed to stop, but just hanging out together felt great - reminded m of how things used to be.

The problem is it was massively hindering my healing process. The week after we’d hang out would always feel like day 1 post-breakup and revert any progress I would make.

She messaged me today asking about the coffee date we had planned. Here’s how it went.

Feels great to take control and get some self respect back! I’m looking forward to finally moving on now.

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