[Requesting Advice] Hello - I'm an established lesbian that's dating a late bloomer. There's some anxiety I have about this and looking for kind people to share their experiences for insight purposes. Thank you!

They can be cute..but it can balloon into a nightmare. You will become like it or not a lesbian coach, in lesbianism, sex, and THE MOST important RELATIONSHIPS.

If this wonderful new woman has had a series of positive relationships( family, friends, intimacy male or female) before you, then there’s something to build on, if there is very little to no history of dating in general( some late bloomers I’ve met have not dated for years and/ or had little to no sex with either gender) then you will have your hands FULL! That can be good, if you’re extremely patient, flexible, understanding, because they are figuring it out while dating you!!

It can also be frustrating, especially if she’s older than you...(some can be extremely hesitant despite having looked for years and finally found you) in the most “issue laden” circumstances, they may have suffered great trauma, neglect or abuse and have had terrible experience relating with others and may have finally allowed themselves to explore their true self, which is great, cathartic and healing for them. For you, you will have a considerable load to carry in the relationship: emotionally, psychologically.

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