Do I have the right to feel upset and lied to if I found out the person I'm dating didn't tell me they were trans?

You're actually a lunatic. Do you think a sandwich is made out of sand too?

trans·pho·bi·a/ˌtranzˈfōbēə/ noun - dislike of or prejudice against transsexual or transgender people.

I think you're the one who needs help if my comment with 3 sentences set you off into such a rage. Please, seek help, it's really not healthy to let out rage like this on literal strangers on the internet. I feel for your family and friends.

Also here's why you can't pull the friend card, because i'm fucking trans???? Imagine being a white guy defending a racist TO A BLACK GUY BECAUSE YOU "HAVE BLACK FRIENDS". That's how stupid you sound right now. Imagine.

But you dont get to claim that you are women because I was born one and you are not like me

You are contradicting yourself. So, you're not transphobic, but, trans women are not women? Got it. Makes total sense.

If you think not telling someone youre in a romantic relationship that youre trans is ok, that is evidence of a shitty moral compass, period. You KNOW it matters or you WOULD tell.

NEVER. IN THIS THREAD. DID I SAY. IT WAS OKAY. TO NOT TELL SOMEONE. YOU ARE TRANS. Are you THAT dense?!

OP knew this girl for THREE WEEKS. THEY ONLY KISSED. Holy fuck, you think i'm the one who belongs in a padded cell? This poor fucking girl was going to tell him, I can almost bet my life on it. BECAUSE ITS WHAT I WOULD DO TOO. It's just not something you fucking tell someone within 5 minutes of meeting them!

/r/TooAfraidToAsk Thread Parent