Right to privacy and dignity/ mistreatment?

OP, since iss gonna be delete:

I was dreading whether to post this note or not since some people will not find it problematic. Any ways, i am babysitter and looked after 2 kids who goes to affluent school in Manhattan. I started working this family 2 months ago and works 5 hour daily from Monday to Friday. Sometimes I do hour or two extra on Friday when they( couple) go for dinner and I put both kids to sleep. Kids are fine and they like to share, play and talk a lot with me. Sometimes they are very naughty, shout at me, hit me with their leg, or pinch me but i don't resent them and I love taking care of them. I know this is the phase they will grow out soon and I always advise them not to say any rude things to others and respect others. Sometimes they listened and sometimes they don't. Anyway I always wish the best for them. So yesterday, after school, I gave snacks to both of them with milk and went for quickly to restroom. I got locked inside the bathroom and after trying to open for sometime I figured out that toilet door was jammed. So I quickly call the kids mother( employer) explaining to her what had happen. She wasn't pleased to hear the incident and told me that she will home in 15 mins. Meanwhile I was worried about kids as they are in dining hall so I called them and told that their mother is on the way, eat ur snack and behave as sometimes they fight a lot. She came within 15 second and told me that it had never happen before, why did you lock the toilet door, what did you do to the latch? we tried again to open the door, couldn't open. So she(Mother) told me that she will call someone and will have to wait until he shows up. And 30 mins has passed and no one turn up.. Finally she to the bathroom where I was struck and told me that the person can't come now and she will go downstairs and call the security/ reception guy to figure out. Meanwhile I was struck for like 45 mins, it is very small bathroom with no window. I was feeling really hot, tried not to panic as it will make things worsen. I keep fanning myself and wash my face with cold water as my face is fully turn to red. Meantime, she came back and told me that she has to call locksmith to open the toilet door and it will costs $65. So I said okay. I was little bit cross because she hasn't asked me once if I am alright, and talking about costs of opening the door. I don't have claustrophobia but I felt suffocated inside and worrying when I can come out. Anyway locksmith came and open the door but I was struck inside for like 1 hour. Finally when I came outside, she told me to take kids downstairs as gentleman was fixing the door. I went to dining hall where I kept my bag, she came behind me and started to yell at me don't keep ur bag there and keep everything in closet. Where as she has never told me where to keep my handbag( I keep mine on the floor). I can see that she was upset angry at me, but I too was angry because she didn't ask if I was okay after being struck inside for hour. She told me not to use cellphone, I can understand that but she is telling me that I should keep my cell phone in bag when I come to work, I can't keep in my pocket. Mind you I have never once make call when I was with kids. I sometime checked to see time as there is no watch in dining hall and sometime to message her what to cook for kids for dinner. So, what do you think about my situations? Is it normal to be treated like that? P.S sometime I work from 10-6pm or 12-8pm during weekend or school holiday but never have I once asked by family member for cup of tea or anything. As soon as kids had their lunch, they are ready to go out either museum or playground and I don't even have time to eat my lunch. in short I don't have any break even when I work 7 plus hour.

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