feminism simply destroys all relationships

There's a serious attribution problem among these people.

Step 1) Person with toxic attitudes about relationships and masculinity enters a relationship

Step 2) Relationship is bad. Partner points this out and cites toxic attitudes about relationships and masculinity.

Step 3) Relationship falls apart.

But then they go on certain corners of the internet and blame "feminism" for giving their partner awareness and agency to think the relationship was bad (I mean, from their perspective, it was great after all), where everyone gathers around and reassures them, oh no, it's not you, she was corrupted!

Then their shitty attitude gets worse and you end up with a self-reinforcing feedback loop.

Basically what I'm saying here is that nobody should enter a relationship with Roko and if you meet everyone who claims anything categorically destroyed all their relationships run away