just chill out ok, all you did then was out strength me

I roll with dudes twice my size (I'm a guy) and that sounds more of an excuse/communication prob during rolling than a gender issue; like you said you never had issues with others - everyone is different.. it might as well as been a guy saying that

At least in my humble non experienced opinion... My class is cool - when I got finger fractured I told the guys I can't use that hand much, and always communicate with bigger dudes who've fucked me up before (they also always ask if I'm okay when I don't tap early enough for ex.) --- that's just what my coach said when I started, talk to guys you roll.. my last day some MMA guy (white but he's beating all blues) didn't wanna roll with me when he was fresh cause he didn't wanna injure me, but rolled with me and gave me his back in 3rd round, gave me some tips about breathing through nose after (I explained I had allergies - he said that's good to know and to make sure to tell people that I got them before we roll, etc.). I didn't take him fucking me up as him using the strength (60 lbs over) or technique.. it was a good roll, I learned a bunch as always and look forward to more

Point is, not sure why it's a gender issue. From what I read here, there are people like that at various levels early on who are just complaining about shit and make excuses no matter what.