Looks like someone went through and had a down-vote party. Does D know you have Reddit and is it possible she and her friends found this?

Honestly I don't care if they did. I'm not calling people names or hurting anyone. I'm listing my annoyances and looking for a solution. I don't even know if they (her friends) are aware of our agreement. Regardless it doesn't matter because this is between those of us who live here. And if they told her then great. I was so irritated I probably would have said everything the way I said it in this post. At least now it'd all be laid out so we can discuss it.

And even if it wasn't them it's whatever. From an outside perspective I probably look like the most pompous prick ever.

But thanks for the advice. I texted A and C this morning to give them bullet points on what happened and they were pretty pissed. So I said we all have to talk to her when everyone is here again. I seriously just don't want any negativity to go around. Everyone should know by now that we all don't mind hanging out and having friends over and that it has nothing to do with her as a person. It's just that this behavior isn't cool. I mean I got three and a half hours of sleep and now I have to rearrange my work schedule for today. I'm always willing to accommodate but I need to know ahead of time in order to do that.

Christ. I was a raging alcoholic last semester so I barely remember but I have snippets of them having parties here and there on the weekends. And they did ask. It was no problem. I think I hung out for a little bit before leaving in a couple instances. I know for a fact that one of them was on a school night and I had a 8am class the next morning but I said it was fine anyway. In the morning I rubbed my eyes and grabbed a gatorade and an energy shot. So no I'm not against parties. I know other people like them. I just need to mentally prepare for them and know what's going on.