RP women, what is it like knowing TRP while dating?

This is really my first real post on PPD, so hey!

Do you date a guy that is also privy to TRP?

He knows what Reddit is and he knows about TRP and RPW mainly because he knows my Reddit handle. He does not however participate in any of this. He is like a ghost online.

Are you currently dating what TRP would consider a Alpha or Beta? Do you think the TRP theories stand true to what they claim you want in a relationship?

Eh. This is where it is tricky. By definition of TRP my SO is the holy grail from what I gather to an extent. He is DT. What people do not understand about DT men is, well, practically everything. You will not ever be able to understand them for what they are unless you have an actual "relationship" with them. They must see you as valuable to them, and it could be for a variety of reasons, for you to even be acknowledged worthy enough of their actual time. What people also severely fail to understand is that although they are wrapped up into what they are, they are not all bad nor do they all want the other person in the picture to become worse or lesser then they are. If they truly believe you have potential, if they truly believe you are or could be a worthy asset to THEIR team, then they will put you through a lot with their games to make you great, to make you unstoppable in their view when compared to everyone else. When I say put you through a lot, you either survive mentally or you break. This will set you apart. In order to be with a DT you need to be 100 steps ahead, even though they are already 500 steps ahead anyway. You need to be able to rely on yourself or be able to obtain emotional satisfaction via other sources if you are a severely emotional person (which most women are, and I am, but this has been discussed and handled appropriately for our long term).

Do you or have you dated an alpha but has never seen TRP? How did he react to the way you employed your knowledge?

My SO doesn't care about what I read online or etc. He cares about what he says and if I listen to that. To him, this is like fun and games for me. Gossip as he calls it.

Have you ever dated an alpha that turned beta and what happened?

Nah. I was 18 when we met. I don't consider HS boyfriends alpha or beta, they weren't faggots but they were not what my definition of alpha is in current time.

Have you ever witnessed anomalies or things not congruent with TRP theories?

Meh. It works for most, doesn't work for some. I just find it aligns as closely to what my SO responds well with. I don't actively look for anomalies because I am far too focused on us just consistently progressing.

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