It’s been almost 4 years , I still can’t get over it. Does it get better ?

Okay yeah I admit it wasn’t a mistake rather a stupid decision which she told me, back then kept her up all night. She’d do anything to go back and change it. But still we do stupid shit under the influence don’t we ? It’s not like she’d planned on cheating on me. I think I should also point out that we were in long distance back then so maybe it’s got something to do it.

I let her know I’d definitely leave her should something like this should ever happen again. Since then she had done nothing but treat me good. we have built a good life together and we are happy so why ruin it ripping off old bandages. It’s not a life we built on lies ..she came clean the next day and was brutally honest about it. She’s never hidden anything from me .it was my decision to forgive her and I don’t regret it. You might say then why rant then ,, that’s the thing it doesn’t bug me everyday but during times like this when I am struggling with other things in life I can’t help but think about it .

I agree that we should talk. But in a way no one is hurt.

All of this might sound stupid to you and I am sorry. I do appreciate the advice tho.

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