Why do you think it’s hard for some people to find someone

Personally I don’t believe there’s a person for everyone. I think the level of difficulty of finding the right person depends on the individual. Some individuals by nature are more easy-going, well put together, and personable, and they may be compatible with several people. Generally, the person you end up with should be someone you’re more compatible with than the majority of the population, but maturity and timing definitely plays a major role in this too. From my experience, mentally and emotionally I was in no position to be in a relationship with anyone a year ago. But since then I’ve grown a lot as a person and as a result I’m able to be in a happy relationship with my SO. He is someone I click with and match with better than anyone I’ve ever met. Maybe there are others out there I’m even more compatible with, but I met him when I did and I am content.

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