Yeah, you may not be having sex with them on that day, but you have already or plan to in the future. Plus trying to think of yourself as a kind and upstanding person, while cheating and lying to your wife just shows how some people rationalize their bad behavior.

One SD here is right, you can do more good giving that money to a food bank than playing white knight. Plus the fact you are seeing so many SBs at once shows you like to keep a harem or a rotation. Are those sincere relationships? The amount of self delusion here is staggering once you look beyond your self-praise. If it was really out of selflessness, why brag about it?