I live in the south. And I am poor. So all I can do is get validation from the internet.
My parents do not know, and if I can help. Never will. Grandmother too.
My brother sort of suspects. But. I'm not worried about him never speaking to me again. I am an adult. So disowning is not really a thing. I think.
If I could actually afford it. I would consider it.
But at the very least I would wait till my grandmother dies.
I don't really care about my mother or father too much. My stepmom is pretty accepting.
My grandmother is old though. And she is pretty much the only reason I am sticking around here.
I hear that Canada is pretty cheap for it. But I couldn't even think of getting surgery in America. That's financial suicide. LMFAO