Scapegoats, did the narcissist go apeshit when you moved out?

She started playing head games, like suddenly she was too "worried" about letting my younger siblings, aged 14 and 16 at the time, come swim in my apartment's pool; wouldn't let me take my cat because she was "worried" the roommates I had would mistreat her. The thing about my siblings I remember SUPER pissed me off because she'd been letting them (both GC of different sexes) do whatever they wanted to at that point for at least four years. I didn't call home for months but my phone never jingled from them, either. She didn't start treating me decently until I had a job she could be proud of and then I gave birth to her grandchild. That's when she really started being "nice" to me.

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