Typically I have higher sex drive than my wife, but recently over the past 3 - 4 months we had several arguments, and she didn’t support me emotionally while I was going through a major health crisis, indeed she was like mad at me because the decreased income due to my major surgery and recovery time. The whole situation was so traumatic to me, to the point I couldn’t believe how selfish she is like if I‘ve never known her before. Since then, I never feel sexually attracted to her anymore. I am 39, she is 41 .. we have been married for 10 years and have 5 children.

I am sharing my story in case if you need to contemplate about your relationship with him outside the bedroom before wondering about the deadbedroom situation you are facing now.