hi. i would love to talk. i am white, 46, very shy and bald lol. i am single now for 13 years, no dating or sex in 6 years so i am definitely looking for that. but i want it with someone safe and cool, you know. i want the friends with benefits with a friend. i work alot, about 60 hours a week. i have 2 kids, one is a rising senior in high school (so i have lots of things to go to this year) and hte other is moving back to college this saturday (we have a big day). anyhow, i would love to talk and get to know you. tell me more about you and what you are looking please, and have you done this before, if so how was it. i am new to all this, have tried various sites for a year, only had 3 meet and greets, nothing physical.