SD’ transparent are you with your SB about your desires and intentions?

I’m not an SD but I would like to say a few things. I have yet to find one POT that has direct communication skills; and most of them claim they want clear communication and no time wasted on either party. None can seem to clearly answer my questions or explain to me what they’re looking for when I ask. Their answer is either half assed, they say they don’t know, or they ignore it completely!

Other times, I will ask simple questions like “How is your day?” “How are you?” And they will answer, but NEVER ask it back. None of them seem like they want to get to know me, even if they reach out to me first. Then, after not even a day of conversing, I’m left on read.

Honestly, I’m losing hope in this lifestyle.

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