I secretly had an abortion behind my husband's back

Where does it say he didn't support it?

She said she told him she was weighing her options up.

As a young woman myself, near her age, I'm sorry but this is wrong on so many levels.

They shouldn't even be together . The lies, the emotional manipulation and the going behind his back is wrong!

I don't care what anyone says. This is wrong.

YES she has control over her body. YES If she wanted to abort that's fine!

But NO Way in hell is this right.

If she didn't want to have a baby she should have been careful from the beginning.

Yes mistakes happen, but whenever you have sex always remember there is always an option you could become pregnant. Otherwise go on the pill / get an implant?

She lied to him, went to the hospital, got an abortion and then cried with him saying she had a miscarriage?? How is this right?

What because she's a woman and she's carrying the baby she gets off Scott free? As a woman I find this so upsetting.

Also for you idiots pointing out he already has 2 kids, so-fucking-what!? What does that matter? There was no indication in any of her post that he couldn't look after / they couldn't provide for another.

It's a given she felt she wasn't ready and that's fine, it's a valid reason, but she should have said that to him. To keep him in the dark is wrong!

The fact that she got back together with him after he "cheated", goes to show she ignored his infidelity. If she was so upset and worried about his infidelity, why get back together with him? Why get intimate with him?

*I already know this will get downvoted / is very unpopular. I don't care, it needed to be said. It's not right *

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