[Serious] In 5 words or less, and in all caps, what's the biggest frustration that you currently have that you wish to get off your chest?

I totally get it. I've watched my friends, brother, family members all be in destructive relationships and I always thought to myself, "I'll never do that. I'll always be smarter than that and get out before it goes too for and not be naive and blah blah blah." And now here I am. I will say that the depression thing is pretty horrible of her. I don't have depression, but if she knows you do that's pretty bad of her to do that to you. Then again, he knows why I have issues with feeling ignored or forgotten yet he still does it to me. But I feel the same way. I deal with the bad because when it's good it is SO good. And I know its not all fake because it's things that are impossible for him to fake. It's so sweet and genuine and perfect. And same thing, it's not just sex. The last time I saw him (we live in different states now) we took a shower and then laid in bed eating pizza and talking and to me that was the most perfect moment imaginable. And I told him that's all I wanted with him- I don't need fancy dates and flowers and over the top proclamations of feelings. I just need quality time, just the two of us. Comfortable and relaxed. That's it. I've finally accepted that his problems have absolutely nothing to do with me or my value as a person, and that they're all his issues. I used to cry all the time over it and I finally stopped doing that. I've just accepted how things are and I kind of just want the ball to be in his court. He knows how I feel and I've made no secret of what I'm feeling, so if anything ever progresses I want it to be because of him. I'm tired of fighting for him over and over again. I want him to fight for me and to be the one to make the moves, because he's the one who confused me in the first place by complicating our arrangement haha. I'm just taking it one day at a time and remembering that I still have time because I'm young.

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