You are absolutely correct. I'm still working towards improving how I am a person in this world, which is why I came here to ask the question. As I said to the other person you are referring to, my guilt is absolutely what brought me here to ask this question. I realized, though, that no matter my intentions, it could be taken the wrong way. The comments here have confirmed it's best that I just leave this situation alone. Please understand that I did not want my guilt absolved - as you said, my actions were mine - but for her to have closure.
I will share what I can, when I can. I will try to teach any children I have the best I can to avoid the mistakes I made.
Thank you for your comment.