[Serious] Confessing love to a (best) friend and the aftermath of the choice. Should i? (story in comments)

Alright, first reddit thread I’m making so I don’t know much. So around 6 months ago I made a new friend. She’s younger than me. We live in different cities so from the start I thought that I won’t pursue anything with her, just friends. She seemed friendly too. Months passed and we got to the point where we trusted much one another. We talked first thing in the morning when we were both awake in Facebook, talked on Skype 5-6 hours daily, I heard and helped her with problems too, etc etc. Normal stuff. We’ve said that on one point we should meet up to know each other in real life, but we haven’t done it yet. Although she’s pretty expansive, extrovert with me, either chatting or talking on Skype, she’s said that in real life she’s terribly shy (to the point where if we plan to meet she may not show up). To the point. About 1 week ago, she started saying weird things to me. I quote (her starting the conversation) “You don’t know how fake I am to you” “Why are you fake to me?” “You already know the answer, yet you try to extract more info”. And she went to sleep. After 2 days, she added someone on her Facebook to troll him, we were in this together.(bad or not bad, didn’t really care). After talking with him(she was doing the talking) about the next day, he was talking about someone he loved and she quoted to him(I was present in the entire conversation, looking it) “Yeah, I know how you feel. 4 years ago, I was in love with someone named (says my name) and although it was on the Internet, you can’t feelings like these show themselves”. I was pretty mindfucked at that moment but didn’t nothing. 2 days later, they said they liked each other (my friend only 4 fun) and they posted that they are in a relationship on Facebook. When I saw that, I asked her why and she said for fun. I caught myself being really fucking jealous of this. We didn’t talk for about 4-5 hours, and then I posted a sad song(u know, the sad bitching piano songs guys post, im fucking terrible). After 1 hour after the post, she comes up to me and says that she deleted the friend she was trolling and blocked him. I was relieved, but played cool. After these events things have started to becoming a little distant. We talk though every day, but we have 2 days to talk on Skype and she seems a bit cold towards me (might be my idea though). So…Any thoughts? Should I ask her straight or something else? I cant cope thinking about all this and caring every day for her well-being. It is literally life-draining. Im up to the point in phase 0, no clue on what should I do.

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