You might be objectifying love. Many young people, like yourself, want what they believe is spiritual fulfillment when the reality of what they want is saccharine and superficial. Romance and intimacy are complex, much more so than simply saying "I love you" and receiving that same sentence in return and if all that's important to you is a hug, a kiss, and an "I love you", you should take some time and develop a deeper self-respect before telling yourself that all you need is someone who makes you feel good about yourself because relationships are reciprocal, a system of giving-and-giving-back where every need must be met on both sides. Fact is that someone who finds someone who meets all their needs is extremely lucky and that the least we can do in relationships otherwise is give as much as we can and be prepared to face that fact that we might not be enough.