[Serious] girls/woman is possbile to an ugly guy be attractive to you?

Obviously there's a threshold somewhere, but the answer is yes! I won't get too much into cliches like "if you have a great personality," but you'll be surprise by how much a person grows on you. When people spend a lot of time together, they'll tend to (but not always) build a stronger bond with each other regardless of personality or in your case, ugliness.

One way to build a strong bond with other people is to face adversity together. This is a reason why many relationships start in school or the workplace. When you're trying to tackle a problem, you'll often overlook minor differences and attempt to find common ground (which is trying to solve the problem). However, if you're lazy, bossy, or a jerk in general, everyone will hate you and you'll still be ugly!

Try to find some common hobbies like photography, drawing, or playing an instrument. Having the ability to share experiences with other people will make you much more attractive intrinsically. Being able to play song for someone or cook together is a fun experience regardless of your ugly face, and if you're actually good at it +1.

Also exercise! Just because your face is messed up, doesn't mean your body has to be. You don't have to be a professional body builder, but gaining some muscle mass and losing some fat doesn't hurt.

Pretty much if your face was carved with a sledgehammer, time is your best friend. You should invest time have into having interesting hobbies, getting fit, and most importantly forming intimate bonds with someone. I should note that no one is obligated to feel attracted to you, even if you're the most interesting man on earth, but that's another post.

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