15 Steps to find your future psychotic EX Step 1. Answer 500 questions that are actually important to you and mark them as important when answering them. Don't answer questions that don't actually matter. Step 2. Write up a light hearted profile. Step 3. Get a haircut, shave or trim, wear makeup, wear clothes that fit you. Step 4. Take quality photos with a quality camera or smartphone. Borrow one if you must from a friend, coworker, sibling. Have them take your pics if needed. Step 5. Natural light, subtle angles, and the rule of thirds are your best friend. Step 6. Have a pic of your face[not a selfie]. A pic with a friend or group of friends. A pic of you doing something. Make sure one of the latter is also a full body pic. Step 7.Post your profile here for a critique. Step 8. Change profile/pics based on critique. Step 9. Search your matches using a single range of age. For example if your preferred age range is 20-24, search for all your 20 year old matches first, then all your 21 yr old matches etc. Step 10. Look at profiles that are a 70% match or higher. Step 11. See if they have at least three pics, have something written in their profile, and have answered at least 100 of the questions you've answered. Step 12. For all those that meet the criteria listed above, check their answers that were flagged as unacceptable. Step 13. If everything check outs, send them a short message that states something mentioned on their profile, add in a joke, and end it with a question about something in their profile.Keep it short! Step 14. If you get a response from someone, after like 3 messages between you and them ask them out for a drink. Step 15. Repeat steps 10-14. Don't get stuck on one person or profile. Take a break from Okcupid if you need it.
Follow these steps and your chance of getting a response will rise from 1% to 2%. And getting a first date from 20% to 30%.