[Serious] People who were cheated on by their SO, what did you do immediately after you found out?

Found out while she was out of town, went to the bank and withdrew every bit of money in all of my accounts, called my attorney and immediately started divorce papers. Got a restraining order against her and cancelled all the credit cards. Hired a company to film the packing, removal and storage of everything that was hers in the house and garage to ensure she could not say I retro yes anything at all, my attorney was there the whole time and I hired an Orange County sheriff to be a legal witness on her off time, moved her car to her mothers house close to where we lived with a full tank of gas and left the keys and title with her. My children were above 18 so no drama there other than what I showed them of page after page of texts between them as well as emails. The house was in my name for business purposes so I called a locksmith and re-keyed the house and storage as well as my garage and car storage. I went down and started a new checking account and new cards with NO permissions for her as a spouse to be able to sign or get ANY money out of them with my attorney right next to me(he's a good friend). I hired a detective to go to the hotel where they were staying ( understand this all was over four days ) and take pictures for the confrontation which would happen. She called the second day after I found out about her card and I told her I lost my wallet and had to replace cards. She came back after her "Girls" trip like nothing happened, I met her at the airport and drove her to her mothers house, she knew something was up because I did not say two words to her from the pickup until the house, she kept trying to get me to talk and asked questions and the only thing I told her was to look in the envelope on the floor, receipts, card history, texts and emails as well as pictures stuffed the envelope. Once she saw the pic of her and he coming out of the hotel she started crying, I had a cashiers check for 35000 dollars and her car and storage keys for her stuff as lol as divorce papers. She tried to talk to me and I just asked her to get out. The kids made the choice to stay with me and until they my daughter got married and my son wanted to live on his own they were with me. We next saw each other in court and her attorney tried to get spousal support and other crap which the judge nixed in a heart beat, 18 years of marriage down the shitter. That said, I love being single, have the respect of my kids and two to three years with an excellent retirement, no debt and all the toys I need. She is married to some dude who sells shit on eBay he buys at thrift stores...

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