[Serious] Reddit, what seemingly small or insignificant thing did you do that has significantly changed the outcome of events and what would have happened if you didn't do that action? In other words, how did you play your part in the Butterfly effect?

I had been living with a woman that dumped me, and the onus to move out was on me. I did some couch surfing and sleeping out of my car for a bit, and eventually found this really awful loft in a sketchy area downtown. I stayed there for about three days while the guy was drawing up papers for me to sign a year-long lease since he'd had a lot of people (understandably) bale on him (he was also pretty sketchy).

The day I was supposed to sign the lease, I had an interview with a couple of women on craigslist to move into their place, month-to-month. My family was gonna send me a check to help me get back on my feet, but they had to wait for me to have a place of residence. I had less than no money, my cards were all overdrawn, the women lived about 30 miles from where I was, and I had enough gas to get, tops, 10 miles. They were meeting with other people, and I knew if I didn't make it, I'd have to sign the lease and stay at the loft.

There were two gas stations in the general area, and I decided to just go for broke and try my overdrawn cards, hoping that the charge would just hit me later. First gas station, all of them were declined. I had to decide between using what gas I had left to get back to the loft, sign the lease, and try and make the most of it, or just 'fuck it' and try the other gas station. I went to the gas station. My car literally ran out of gas as I was pulling up to the pump.

Card goes through somehow, I fill up my tank, I go and meet the girls, I get the place.

In the two and a half years since then, I:

Had a whirlwind rebound relationship with one of the women I moved in with.

Decided I couldn't stay there anymore, post-turmoil, at about the same time that my best friend wanted to get a bigger apartment.

Managed to get a seriously nice apartment in a seriously nice area for as much as I was paying to live in a living room.

Lived with my best friend for a while.

Kept the place and got a great new roommate afterwards.

Met a lot of cool people.

Somehow made decent amounts of money.

Met my girlfriend of the last year thanks almost entirely to proximity.

Mended my relationship with my family.

A billion other things.

If I'd done the responsible thing and taken my car back to the loft, I have no idea where I'd be now, but my life wouldn't even resemble what it's become. At the very least, I wouldn't have met my girlfriend, and I wouldn't be as close as I am with my best friend. I imagine, beyond that, things would've gotten much worse.

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