My mum was physically, verbally and mentally abusive my whole life and my sisters.

I’ll sort the where is she now bit, chronically ill in the brain and has extremely early onset dementia now.

Growing up she always hit me and my sisters and would leave marks even when I was 16+. I often passed it off as my boyfriend being too rough during sex as it was less questions/easier to accept. I have small scars from it but honestly wasn’t the worst. The worst was when I missed something from her prescription and she dragged me up the street to the pharmacist to fix it, I was 13 and fell during it but instead of letting me get up she dragged me along the ground and due to our area i ended up with a deep calf slash from glass (still scarred). She ripped out a pretty bad clump of hair and told the pharmacist I’d fell on the way up.

She also used to berate me for mental health issues then use them to garner sympathy for herself which mentally was the worst thing she did. She’d yell at me about my weight then use me starving myself to her advantage making me often wonder if she caused those issues on purpose to bolster her support.

Ive escaped it now and due to her condition my sisters also have but it’s traumatic and due to my ASD caused a lot of deep rooted issues