(Serious) What was the moment with your ex SO that made you think, "I can't do this for the rest of my life"?

The day I broke up with him. I did everything I could to take care of him and show that I cared. This particular day I asked to sleep in a bit later (I worked evening shifts, he was between jobs I think) and got up close to lunchtime and got ready to go out. I came out and asked him what he wanted for lunch and he started screaming at me saying he was having stomach problems and that I didn’t care about him. Wtf? We were having plenty of other problems prior, so him irrationally screaming at me without explaining calmly what he was going through was the breaking point. He wasn’t great at communicating, couldn’t hold a steady job, and complained that I didn’t care about him simply because I gave myself some basic self-care. Couldn’t do that for the rest of my life.

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