This is a dumb one - but I think a coworker at work is cute, and want to get to know her more. We work in different departments and our jobs don't overlap at all, so I haven't had many chances to talk to her. I haven't been in a relationship in ~4 years, and sadly I did very little dating between then and now. I feel so out of the loop, I don't even know what to do. I don't want to come off as creepy, and I know there is a fine line with work relationships. I'm not in the best physical shape right now, so my confidence isn't all that high - a.k.a. I have no fucking game right now. I'm making some lifestyle changes right now that may help my chances in the future (eliminating booze for the mean time and eating healthier), but my friends are saying if I'm serious about making a move, it needs to be sooner than later. The thought of "making a move" stresses me tf out, so I'll probably just bite my tongue until it's too late like always.