Recently got out of a quite uncomfortable relationship with a girl that kinda went wrong bc the only activity we did together was smoke weed and have sex. This led me to stop smoking weed after doing it probably every day for the last year, and instead I decided to myself to play piano. I’ve focused on that for the last several days and it has felt so good to enjoy life sober. And I also just met another girl who is big music theory nerd and we’ve been bonded a lot very quickly. It all feels so good bc it’s like I’m actually myself again and as a result I can be way more open with this new girl (and everyone in my life, really). It’s incredibly satisfying to see how powerful my self control and discipline can really be in helping me achieve the things I want.