[Serious] Who were you in High school? The outcast? The Popular one? The Hot one? The ugly one?

High school senior here. I homeschooled until high school, so I had a little difficulty adjusting at first. I guess in my first three yearsI got the reputation as that really smart innocent girl who could be kind of snobby. I used to get a bunch of academic awards and honors, so in the beginning I kind of acted as if I thought I was better than everyone out of insecurity. People also knew of me as that girl who sings because I'm involved in all the school masses and sang in Carnegie Hall my sophomore year. I also got really into indie/alternative music and cult nerd culture like Doctor Who and whatnot. I studied or read or did after school activities all the time. Really wasn't too social. Senior year has been a different, found my confidence, making good grades, doing things I enjoy and apparently now a bunch of people also think I got attractive so that's nice. Everyone at school knows me and I'm pretty outgoing and talk to people easily but I've never been invited to a real party (aka not a birthday party) and I tend to be that "sort of" friend to a lot of people. I've switched friend groups a lot and only had one boyfriend and several almost boyfriends--after people get to know me they sometimes go away, supposedly because I'm "super intimidating/intense." Even so, social life is a little awkward and difficult--homeschool background didn't help and neither does adolescent awkwardness and depression/anxiety. Really I'm kind of a floater who's pretty independent and does a bit of everything. I'm still known as that super smart artsy girl who takes every AP class and does everything (track and field, dance, music, theatre, debate, music, green club, national honor society, student ambassadors, etc) butI'm okay with it and I've come a long way from where I started. Still. Really hoping college is different. High school sucks. Tl;dr I'm the former homeschooler now known as the nice, innocent, nerdy genius girl who sings and is over-involved but doesn't really belong to any group.

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