From a guys perspective, the one thing I don't like is games.

I don't mind waiting with someone I have a connection with, nor would that connection fade if I had sex with a girl I liked after 5 minutes (as others said, if there's a connection there, I'd want more). Build up can be fun, but so can getting straight to it. I personally find it really hot sitting with a girl and not knowing if anything will happen – makes me feel 15 again.

But what I can't stand is games. By that, I mean girls that aren't being honest with themselves (and therefore me). By that I mean a girl that strings things out unnecessarily when we could have just done it on the first date BUT I also would rather a girl that truly needed time to take it.

I'm not going to think anything less of you (and nor should you) if we had sex after first meeting. I'm not going to think anything less of you if you generally needed time to build a connection.

I am going to think less of a girl who holds out because some stupid and meaningless third date rule, or because you think you should, or what would your friends think, etc, etc. –

This is completely different to a nervous girl who genuinely needs time, etc., which is fine with me.