My mother seems half-convinced I'm gay at this point, lol. Keeps asking "have you really thought about it?" every few weeks, and reassures me that she'll always support me no matter who I am. Heh. I'm touched by the gesture, but it's hardly my sexuality that's problematic. My twin sister has been dating since she was 14, my father is a far better man than I, and my mother has always been a beautiful and extremely sociable person. I understand that they all simply might not be able to understand my experience. They've never had it.
People do tend to post a lot about relationships (and to a lesser extent, sex) in this subreddit. Sometimes it makes me think whether it's very healthy for ADHD/Anxious people to actively search for a relationship--the sheer volume of posts about it leads me to believe we're prone to hyperfocusing on it over other, perhaps more fulfilling experiences in life. I do admit, I feel like every day I relate less and less towards people with active sexual or romantic lives. It worries me deeply. I don't want to end up an old and bitter man, but what am I supposed to do about it?
I will agree with the other poster, that porn is a problematic thing for people like you and me. I try to limit it best I can, by filling my time with other hobbies where I can just be myself and maybe meet new people along the way. I know it's difficult--I have anxiety too, and in times of need, I tend to withdraw from the world rather than do the smart thing and seek help--but porn has done little for me but made me feel worse about my own situation, and it's so important for people like us to remain connected with any support networks we might have. Anxiety makes it difficult, and the stigma against men asking for help even more so--but if it helps, know at least one person might be able to truly understand how you feel.