Sex toys (we-vibe 4), what are your thoughts?

I'm sure you've found your answer by now, but for those of you who are thinking of possibly buying the we-vibe 4, this is my review.

The We-Vibe 4 is the first and only vibrator for couples in my collection. It was referred to me by a friend. She loved it, so I figured it was worth a try. Let’s be honest, I’ll try anything that might give me an orgasm with my partner.

I purchased the We-Vibe 4 in September, 2014 from http://www.colorsandtoys.ca/en/. I payed $120.00 CAD for it. After tax and shipping it came to $140.00 CAD. Colors and Toys had the best prices online at the time, and shipping was fast and discrete. With this product I had the option for free shipping, but I wanted it right away, so I chose to pay the $5.00 CAD for express post. The We-Vibe 4 was available in both pink and purple; I chose the pink one.

What’s Inside the Box -Wireless remote -We-Vibe 4 -Storage case/charging dock -USB cable -Instruction manual

Features -The We-Vibe 4 has some great features! It’s a vibrator with both a g-spot stimulator and a clitoral stimulator all in one. It comes with a very compact case and charging dock that charges via USB. This makes it a very Eco-friendly toy.

-A six hour charges means up to three hours of continuous play.

-The remote is wireless, and requires one lithium cell battery(CR2032). Not as Eco-friendly as the vibrator, but I’ve had my We-Vibe 4 for six months now, and I haven’t had to replace it yet.

-The We-Vibe 4 is made with a medical grade silicon; is non-porous; and is phthalate free. What does this mean? It’s a very safe toy for you to use all the time.

-The We-Vibe 4 is waterproof. Aka bubble baths are now more fun, especially if you are including your partner!

-It has a smooth and sleek design which makes it very easy to clean. All you need is soap and water!

-If your going to use a lubricant, just remember to use a water based lubricant

-The We-Vibe 4 has an insert-able length of 2,9 inches x 1,2 inches.

The We-Vibe 4 in action I was so excited when it arrived!

I decided that I was going to wait until my husband got home to use it for the first time, so I just left the box on the bed for him to find. I purchased it for the two of us, and I wanted us to both experience it for the first time together.

We got down to business pretty much as soon as he discovered it. The We-Vibe 4 has six vibration modes with different levels of intensity. We had a lot of fun playing around with the different settings, but in the end I decided that I liked the steady vibration on the highest setting the best. The cordless remote made it that much easier to use during intercourse. You don’t have to put your hand down there in the action, and risk accidentally moving it out of place, and most importantly there is no cord to worry about. All you need to do is press a button, and it does all the work for you. You can’t mess that one up. The remote also means that your partner can take full control, which is important, especially if you have a partner who is uneasy or threatened with the idea of a toy in the bedroom.

Four play with the We-Vibe 4 was great. But when it came to intercourse the We-Vibe 4 didn’t quite deliver. During missionary, when my partner was going slow it was alright, but as soon as he started to thrust more frequently, the we vibe started to fall out. After a couple times of that happening, we decided to switch it up. Spooning was much better, but I had to have my hand down there the whole time to ensure it stayed in the right place (even that wasn't doing it for me). The vibrations were just not strong enough for my liking, and with both the We-Vibe 4 and my husbands dick inside me, I felt as though the We-Vibe 4 couldn't reach both my clitoris and g-spot at the same time. I ended up just taking it out, and using it solely on my clitoris. I don’t know what went wrong, but the We-Vibe 4 just didn't do it for me, and I wasn't able to have an orgasm. To this day, (6 months later) I still haven’t been able to reach orgasm during intercourse with the We-Vibe 4.

“Me time” with the We-Vibe 4 After my first failed attempt of reaching orgasm with the We-Vibe 4 and my partner, I decided to give it a try on my own. I tried for half an hour with just the We-Vibe 4 on its own. I got close a couple times, but the vibrations alone on my clitoris and G-spot were just not enough for me. I decided to use one of my other larger g-spot vibrators along with the We-Vibe 4. I didn’t have an issue reaching orgasm, but it wasn’t a very strong one. I tried a couple more times on separate occasions with my g-spot vibrator and the We-Vibe 4 inside me, and the orgasms were still pretty weak. Since then, I’ve just used the We-Vibe 4 along with one of my other vibrators and the orgasms I get are great!

The Verdict Would I buy this again? Probably not. I do like it, but in my opinion, it’s not what it’s said to be. Yes it’s a vibrator for couples, but it doesn’t work very well for that purpose (at least for me). It’s fine if your going slow with your partner, but if you want to amp it up a bit, in my experience, it falls out. For me it also doesn’t fit properly. I have a “special vagina”, and it just doesn’t line up. During sex, it’s either hitting my g-spot or my clitoris, but not both at the same time unless I’m holding it in place (not very practical when your hands are in the way, and your partner can’t move). It’s great for foreplay in the sense that it will get your juices flowing, but other than that it’s not very useful to me. During solo play it’s great, but only if your using a dildo/vibrator with it. On its own, it’s a lost cause. I need to hold it at just the right angle, but even then it doesn’t usually do the job (I’ve been able to orgasm once with just just the We-Vibe 4 in the past 6 months). The vibrations aren't strong enough for me, and the g-spot stimulator is just too small for my liking. I feel that I could have easily achieved what the We-Vibe 4 delivers using one of my other toys. The We-Vibe 4 has a great design, and is definitely one of the best built toys that I own, but overall, we’re just not a good fit.

Of course these are my sole opinions, and it might be great for you. You don’t know unless you try it. If you do have any doubts, just remember, at $140.00 it’s a pretty expensive risk, but then again it might be a good risk!

The choice is yours, I just hope my review has helped you make the best one.

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For the entire review complete with pictures, please visit my blog: www.othesweetestthing.wordpress.com

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