Sexual freedom favors women and their lovers

I have already been regularly keeping my style and grooming well above the average man for over a decade at this point. I’ve never been a nice guy. But I’ve always been what women want to be in a relationship with, not what they want to fuck. Also there are plenty of Chads who don’t even have to do anything and get laid all the time (check out some posts on /r/tinder). If I really need to try this hard, what does that even say about me? I sure as hell don’t get IOIs or any attention whatsoever. I’ve obviously put more work into myself than a lot of men do, yet I’m still not getting any benefits from it. Really I’m just not attractive.

Note: I corrected the link in my previous post

A) you can't base your sense of self on IOIs. YOU have to know who you are (that you're the shit) and that women would find that out upon meeting you and being exposed to your personality. Strangers who don't know you probably won't give you IOIs, because they're possibly going off your looks.

B) Why the fuck are you on tinder? What happened to men and society. If you have to use a dating app, that right there itself will cause women to lose attraction for you. Tinder attracts the bottom of the barrel men and women.

If I really need to try this hard, what does that even say about me?

C)

I’ve obviously put more work into myself than a lot of men do, yet I’m still not getting any benefits from it.

That's not going to make girls approach you. Girls rarely approach women, and if they do, then it's going to be based on looks. But like I said, you have to develop an attractive personality. People won't be attracted to you off the bat, but once they hear you and interact with you, they come to find out you're the shit

Combine two rules:

A) intent - this is where when you approach girls, you have to communicate (not explicitly) that you are talking to her for sexual reasons, not friendship. Todd V has a video on this, although he calls it "premise" instead of intent, cuz it's a better way to show intent

B) Being persistent without being needy. Girls won't do the work. You have to do the work. At least initially. Girls try to walk off or act disinterested, to see if you take the bait. Guys with low self esteem will respond by saying "see, I knew she wasn't interested in me". Fuck that, her plan of screening you as a beta male worked then. YOU have to have trusting yourself to know you're the shit and that she is wrong. Go off of your interpretation of yourself, not her interpretation of you. Anyway, learn the difference between "token resistance" and "actual resistance". If it's actual resistance, then don't keep pursuing her, or else it can be considered harassment. If it's token resistance, keep being persistent. YOU have to want it for yourself. She's not going to just jump on your cock right away.

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