[Sexual Values] Advice needed for a crumbling relationship facing differing fundamental values

  • that choice of sleeping locale wasn't her preference...GF 'insisted'

  • I wasn't intending 'triggered' in the safe spaces special snowflake use of the word...I was talking about immediate flashback leaving you mute and catatonic (and appearing to be unconscious) while dredging up PTSD level yuk. Or, ya know, he could just get up and walk six feet to the bathroom to jerk it. I don't think you realize how sadly common 'harmless' erotic observation of sleeping minors is, and how unlikely those of us that experienced such things are to share it with randoms. Point being, I can come up with several reasons for him to walk to the loo, and no non-creepy/selfish/lazy reasons for him to jerk next to a sleeping non-partner.

  • 'the lady shouldn't have been dressed like that in that place' cuz she was asking for it, dressed like that and all unconscious? 'Women are capable of making decisions on their own'...she wanted otherwise, GF insisted. She was clearly inebriated enough to have her functioning compromised. She in some way decided she was cool with him getting off inches from her unconscious body and conveyed as much to him? There's so much off in that quick line of thought you laid down, it's hard to unpack it all.

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