I’m not sure. The problem is, I can go multiple times a day everyday. So if it were up to me, that’s how much I would be asking. Which is a problem because he doesn’t want it that frequently anymore, but it’s fine if I can get at least 3 times a week. When he was starting to decline, I would ask him maybe everyday and more often than not, he would reject me. It started to get to the point where I would get visibly sad because it was just so frequent that he would say no, and it just made me feel really insecure and not good enough, and when I would get sad about it he would just say that now IM making him feel bad for saying no and that I’m “manipulating him” for sex. That hurt me even more because literally all I do is just ask him, I would hate for him to force himself to do something he doesn’t want, all I want is for him to want to do it. That’s the reason why I stopped asking. It wasn’t until then that I realized that it’s always been me to do it, and it makes me even sadder. That’s why I feel like it’s just pointless at this point to talk about it with him. I just feel like it’s really annoying.