Actually, you're language and responds, is what makes me think of it as immature - I would never have guessed you were all 40+.

And no, I'm not homophobic or sexist, sorry to dissapoint you.
- I do state, that I don't know the extend of your conversations, so all I can respond to, is what you give of information.

I think it makes it immature, with your reaction to it - while I fully agree, I wouldn't exactly have jumped up in joy with the 'cool offer of getting to give him a bj' it just seems immature to me, to go from hanging out together, teasing him with pegging, to actually planning to do it - to then sending him such a msg and then blocking him? (Since the post is deleted, then sorry I lost the wording).

None of gives ME the vibe of anyone 'sexually secure' - maybe you are, who knows. Clearly, I stroke a nerve - sorry.