Thank you for your help. I do think my mom should find someone... more adult? To talk to. Or just someone who isn’t me. But I will say she never speaks ill of him, just what she’s gone through. And most of the things she says about encounters that I wasn’t there for are similar if not the same to encounters I was there for, so that’s why I believe her. All the negative words I’ve said about him have came from me and my own experience with him and the way he acts. I don’t believe she’d ever intentionally lead me to dislike my father. He’s done that all on his own, but I do see how it may seem that way in this thread. Regardless, thank you for your time and effort to help.

But I agree I should be in the middle of this. I’m done with it. If he continues to walk on me, I’m done with him. I’m glad I have a justification to cut him out of my life. Hopefully he sells the house and land and moves so far away I don’t have to worry about cutting him out of my life, he’ll do it himself.