Should I [23F] tell my close friend [23F] not to get married just because she got pregnant?

she told us she was tired of him always being mad at her for the littlest things (over-worked so she doesn't have much time to chat/text during the day, she quit law school to focus on working full-time).

Then you should sit her down and have a look at her options.... can she leave the country and work as an aupair or something? Can she get an abortion somewhere? Can she give the baby up for adoption anonymously?

She told us she'd wait for the guy to break up with her. This is why I feel like it's such a mistake to get married.

An abuser won't break up with her. Her fiancé has her right where he wants her to be: trapped.

Simply ask your friend, does she want to be cheated on? Does she want to risk her own and her baby's health by staying with someone who's already cheating on her/going to cheat on her?

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