We didn’t move to have romantic relationship. He suddenly moved to my town without a reason... like it wasn’t for a job, and he said it’s not about me too. It was both a big shock and great surprise, cause he didn’t tell me anything until he was already here. We tried dating, but it was strange and he wouldn’t talk about us or why he moved. It just made me so crazy, that I’m not sure if we can proceed and how. And although he was the one to move, he’s also the one that is not sure about things. I feel like it ruined our friendship and that part I miss terribly.
I understand you’re trying not to be super optimistic, but please, don’t let my experience to let you go in the opposite direction too. Live your life at the best possible and if you like someone - kiss, if you love someone - tell, and don’t be scared. You know - all of those cliche stupid stuff!